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What you need to know about domestic violence

On Behalf of | Feb 19, 2021 | Criminal Defense

Domestic abuse can happen to anyone in Illinois regardless of sexual orientation, gender, age or race. If you or someone you love is suffering from domestic abuse, you may be wondering where to turn for help.

Once domestic violence happens, it almost always recurs and even becomes more severe. If you or someone you know is a victim, it’s worthwhile to consider some information about domestic violence and what you can do to seek protection.

What is domestic abuse?

While many people think that domestic abuse always involves an act of physical violence, it can actually take many forms. In most cases, domestic abuse involves a pattern of control or power. Domestic violence can be:

  • Physical
  • Verbal
  • Sexual
  • Emotional

An abuser may use many tactics to maintain control over a victim. These include fear, intimidation, guilt and shame.

What are the symptoms of an abusive relationship?

There are several different signs of an abusive relationship that you should be aware of. Most victims have a fear of being around their partner. They may feel as though they can’t do anything right and have to walk on eggshells to prevent anger. They may even wonder if they’re crazy or responsible for causing the abuse. The more severe the abuse becomes, the more a victim usually feels helpless or emotionally numb.

What can you do if you’re the victim of domestic abuse?

If you’re the victim of domestic abuse, don’t wait until it’s too late to act. The moment the cycle of abuse begins, call the police. Seek medical treatment immediately if you sustain an injury. Save as much evidence as possible to prove your side of the story. Document your injuries by having someone take photos. Consider speaking to an experienced attorney who can help you file a restraining order.


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